How Much is That Doggie in the Window?

Grampy called me on Friday night to tell me he was getting a puppy. A Jack Russell terrier no less. He was supposed to be inheriting Alice, the neighbor lady's dog, Suzy. Alice keeps falling and her kids said one more fall and they would banish her to a nursing home. It's been three months and Alice is still sitting in her recliner, still complaining about her hip and I guess Grampy got tired of waiting for her to break it.

Grampy's never had a puppy before. They are jumpy, they bite, they eat shoes, they poop and pee everywhere. They are high maintenance and it's all Grampy can do to make sure he makes it to the toilet himself on time, let alone take a puppy outside every 5 minutes.

Mike and I high-tailed it over there bright and early the following morning for a “Puppy-vention”. We talked to him about the down-side of puppies and begged him to let us take him to the SPCA and pick out an older dog, a mellower dog, a house-broken dog, a dog on its last leg—like him. Grampy listened in silence, a blank stare on his face. I began to wonder if he even remembered he was getting a puppy. We preached the Voice of Reason to him—and Mike's a great preacher. He gets passionate and loud. It's in his DNA. He stood up and waved his arms for greater effect when he got to the “How are you going to have the physical stamina to house-break a puppy, dad!?” part. And at that precise moment there was a timid knock on the front door, followed by an old lady standing there with a puppy in her arms.

Grampy's new love....2 month old "Missy"

Opening the door and grinning from ear to ear, Grampy exclaimed “There's my little Missy!” (he'd already picked out a name). He took the dog, cradling her in his arms and began talking to her, crooning to her, practically salivating over her. The delivery lady was the neighbor lady on the other side of his trailer. Not Alice with the hip...no this was Barbara with the chihuahua named “Mister”. Barbara just moved in a few weeks ago and evidently she and Grampy are already fast friends. He'd told me about her when she first moved in. Word in the predominately female trailer park is that Grampy is an eligible single male and she'd brought him home baked cookies lickety split upon her arrival. “Oh” I said “You are two-timing Alice. Does Alice know about the new girlfriend?” “No” he simply stated. “Well is Barbara pretty?” I asked. “Well” he pondered “She's fat but she's not bad to look at.” Grampy is not a mincer of words; he tells it like it is. Then he went on to talk about Mister the chihuahua, ad nauseum. I wonder if these poor women know that Grampy only loves them for their dogs?

The quickest way to a man's heart...a plate of cookies

Grampy took Missy outside to do “potty” and at that point, Mike turned a questioning, dare I say accusatory, gaze onto Barbara who had settled herself into a recliner. She was non-plussed and beaming with pride just to have been a part of this special moment. “He's lonely” she offered as an explanation for butting into his business and spearheading the whole dog acquisition movement. “Yeah well he has a huge family that wants to love him and spend time with him but they are rejected at every try. It's his own fault.” I didn't say that but I was thinking it. I've always been resentful of the amount of love Grampy gives his dogs while his human family gets none of it.

Grampy and the puppy came back into the house, whereupon he gave us a 5 minute description of Missy's first “doodie”. The size, the color, the consistency, the exact location on the grass... like she was a canine astronaut making her first lunar landing. Criminy Christmas, he wouldn't stop talking about it. He was proud as a chicken farmer whose hen laid a four yolk egg. Barbara was excited, encouraging him on. I began looking for the nearest exit. Mike and I could clearly see the intervention was an epic fail. So with our tails tucked between our legs we edged our way to the door, and with one last word of advice from Mike-- “Dad, just don't feed her people food!” we left.

Next morning Mike showed up on Grampy's doorstep to make sure all was OK. He found the old man in the living room eating his breakfast; the puppy sitting on his lap eating scrambled eggs.

Sigh. Raising your parents is a thankless job.